Caution: This write up is not for the guys because this is strictly a girl’s perspective. All the stuffs written underneath are the author’s view-point (yeah, yeah mostly based on her experiences—so that probably answers the most obvious question for all the gossip-mongers) and any resemblance to any person/ghosts, living or dead is purely co-incidental.
Deny it or not most of us would have gone through the worst thing and one of the most common things that occurs in a love story---The break-up. And as much the inception of the fairy tale love story would have been beautiful, the end would be equally nightmarish. And in between a conversation with a good friend I got the idea to pen down what I feel are some remedies to the ultimate culmination (if not getting together) – the break up.
Sleep over it----One of the most common mistakes that most of us do after a heated discussion with our boyfriend is recapitulation of the fight. Dah--- now that is one hell of mistake gals. Never-ever think back. Switch off all the main signals of your brain and do what will help you forget the fight-Sleep over it. Take a long relaxing nap, get freshened and grab a tea/coffee/or anything that helps but doesn’t pile up the calories.
Effect- Not that it will solve your issue but in the end you would have had a deep relaxing nap and save yourselves those dirty crow webs under the eyes and dark-circles.
Laugh it loud--- Call your best galfriend with whom you would have shared this ‘fairy tale’ story right from its inception till the end. Cry to her if that helps (but that is only for the first fifteen minutes), vent it out, and cry it loud. Following this should be a good laughter session. Your friend should be capable enough to find as many faults about your boyfriend and even her boyfriend, much better all the men folk on the face of the earth and laugh over those shortcomings. Laugh it loud, roll over. Talk anything but that break-up. Bitch about anything and everything. Find something utterly humorous about your ex’s current GF/fiancé (even if it’s her name) and joke about it.
Effect- You would be laughing and laughter is actually one good exercise for the facial muscles. You would be amazed at your own and your friend’s creative side of laughing on the most non-humorous jokes in the history of the world.
Go shopping--- This one is not my personal favourite but this is an input from my friend. Go shop gals. Pick up at least one thing- anything-shoe, make-up, clothes.
Effect- Though a costly indulgence, you won’t really regret getting the trendy stuff in your wardrobe.
Pampering----One of the aftermath one has to suffer after a break up is loneliness- a horribly wretched time when you would be actually missing the pampering, care and affection of your ex. So what is the solution- simple- going to a parlour or a spa, get that long awaited massage, facial, pedicure, manicure and the likes. Get dressed up, look good. There is no solution coming up from that lonely introspection of what went wrong or who was right and crying over it. Look good, feel good. Get noticed- come on we know we need attention.
Effect- End of the day you will be proud of the beautiful gal facing you in the mirror. There is nothing better than feeling good about you and falling in love with yourself.
Rediscover your 3 A.M. friend--- As it happens in most cases, with your love story getting into your head you would have ignored your best boy-friend (as in friend)/admirer/well-wisher. Accept it or not this world is actually divided into two divisions- Gals and boys. So you actually need that friend from the opposite sex to fill the temporary void left over by your ex (temporary because that phase won’t really last that long lady). No harm in talking, laughing and a little bit flirtations. But please you don’t really need to rush into things and add on to your already existing confusions. Concern shown towards you during a rebound can actually be highly dangerous to you health and prove fatal.
Effect- You would have actually reconnected with your temporarily lost buddy.
These are the few remedies I can gather. Follow it if you like, forget it if you want. Suggestions and additional points are welcome. Displeasures can be kept to yourselves- cause me seriously aint in any mood to take it.
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